Day 20- 7 Surprising Secrets… to BuildingYour Confidence

  Shhh! Don’t tell anyone!

Here are my

7 SURPRISING SECRETS TO BUILDING YOUR CONFIDENCE

1.   Do nothing…

When you’re not sure what to do… do nothing until at least the next day.  After a glass of wine and  a good night’s sleep, you’ll wake up refreshed and it’ll all become clearer.

You may not have the whole solution but you’ll at least know where to begin.

Your Confidence will grow. Trust me!

2.   Say no… 

to all distractions, unwelcome invitations, the phone, e:mail, and doorbell.

You need to concentrate on the matter in hand . End of.

Give yourself time to make that plan, choose your goals.

Your Confidence will grow. Trust me!

3.   Complain…

in a good way. 

If your coffee arrives and it’s cold, tell the waitress, politely, and ask for another cup.

Your Confidence will grow.  Trust me!…

If the seat you’ve been given in the restaurant is draughty/too near the loos/too hot/too cold, politely ask to be moved. And don’t accept anything

other than what you require.

Your Confidence will grow.  Trust me…

4.   Get rid of it…

If you haven’t used it, worn it, read it, for a year, get rid of it.

Making space on your bookshelf, in your wardrobe, in your home, will help you make space for clearer thinking and new ideas.

Your Confidence will grow.  Trust me!

5.   Do less …

than you’ve written on your To Do list.  If you have 10 items, aim for 5.  If you have 5, aim for 3 . In other words, don’t bite off more than you can chew. Don’t set yourself an unobtainable goal.

Your Confidence will grow. Trust me! 

6.   Worry…

 but only for 5 minutes every day. Allow yourself 5 minutes and worry as much as you like and then… stop! 

Have that glass of wine/bag of Maltesers (yes, the large bag) and then  is there anything you can do to change the worrying situation TODAY?

If there is, do it, if not wait till tomorrow for your next allotted 5 minutes of worry time.

Your Confidence will grow. Trust me!

 7.   Don’t do it…

…whatever it is, unless you’re sure it’s right for you. Listen to your instincts.  They’re usually right.

Your Confidence will grow. Trust me!

TODAY’S TASK

Follow and keep all the secrets above … and add one more in the Reply Box.

We all want to know YOUR SECRET to building your Confidence!

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